Long time not talk with my best friend, (also long time not post her stories…sorry pal 🙂 )
Couple of weeks ago, we talked a lot and she asked me a question….
What would you do, if you see the one that you care a lot, and you love, do a bad thing (that one knows that you don’t like that thing) right in front of you..
And that one didn’t even give any explanation for it…
I just saw a quick sad look in my friend’s eyes…
You don’t like smoke, nor to see other smoke. Your best friend knows it well. At first, he/she doesn’t smoke…
But people change
You see you best friend that you care, smokes in front of you, and keep smoking when you see him/her.
What would you do?
She offered me 3 solutions :
1. Keep talking like nothing happen.
Pretend that you never see it.
2. Remind him/her and asked why did he/she do that?
3. Loose your trust on him/her.
She always asked me a deep question like that = =’…
I gave my opinion to her…
There must be something happen behind it, something that make people change….
And that’s the thing we can’t control… cos that things had happened in their past till make them change (now – in present)
I might choose number 2, but if that person doesn’t want to take it, I’ll leave it.. Not try to push my point of view to others…
I might wish that person from afar to be okay, to get realized…
And i might not push that person to answer what’s the reason behind it.. for everybody has their own private life..
Just try to appreciate others, if that person want to share it. I’d be honored..
But if don’t, that would be his/her right to do it.
We can’t change people rite??
I just don’t know whether i answered it correctly or not, actually that’s what i thought that time…
Will there be any other options??
Huff, dunno, i just wish for her happiness…^^ i wish i could help her anytime she need it.
Good luck Gal 😉
(the background of this question will be posted in different post ^^)
PS : of course she knew that i post it, and she doesn’t mind.. in other way, it might help her to get more thoughts from others 🙂